曾經愛過的人，一旦下定決心放手，便沒有資格再挽留。心中有很多不捨，卻只能任其遠去。

Once a person who once loved has made up his mind to let go， he is no longer qualified to retain。 There is a lot of reluctance in my heart， but I can only let it go away

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如此對待你的人，已經看淡了你，別糾纏。

People who treat you like this have underestimated you。 Don‘t entangle。

不要追求你，一個心中沒有你的人。

Don’t pursue you， a person without you in his heart。

他們將對你提出更多的要求，料定了你不拒絕，所以你們的關係就為所欲為了。

They will ask you more and expect you not to refuse， so your relationship will do whatever you want。

測試一個女人的智慧，情商，修為，甚至是駕馭男人的能力。

Test a woman‘s wisdom， EQ， cultivation， and even her ability to control a man。

如果你一蹶不振，無心工作，生活得一團糟。一個放棄你的人，反而認為他的選擇尤其正確。

If you’re down， you don‘t want to work and your life is a mess。 A person who gives up on you thinks his choice is especially right。

不願離開：如果你同意，會一直照顧你的餘生

Unwilling to leave： if you agree， you will take care of you for the rest of your life

人生地不熟，道阻且長，若沒有一顆堅強的心，就難以抵抗歲月的風吹雨打。

The place of life is unfamiliar， and the road is blocked and long。 Without a strong heart， it is difficult to resist the wind and rain of years。

愛恨得失，責任的重擔，壓在人身上的重擔，內心稍顯脆弱，便會招架不住。

Love hate gain and loss， the burden of responsibility， the burden on people， the heart is a little fragile， it will be overwhelmed。

若是談上三五天，那倒也不算什麼。如果每天聊天，且每次都聊到不自覺入睡，那隻能說明，兩人的關係早已變質。

If we talk about three or five days， it’s nothing。 If you chat every day and don‘t sleep consciously every time， it only shows that the relationship between the two has deteriorated。