經歷了幾年戀愛失敗的女性，絕大多數都很難快速擺脫憂傷，只有一小部分女性是靠自己活得充實。

The vast majority of women who have failed in love for several years are difficult to really get out of sadness quickly， and only a small number of women live by themselves。

女人不想做什麼？其實，她要的

“多一點”，懂得就會快樂！一個沒有物質的女人，到底想要什麼？

Women don‘t want anything？ In fact， she wants “more” and will be happy when she knows it！ What do immaterial women want？

有病的婚姻時代，物慾和肉慾是原罪。結婚要回到健康的軌道上，必須從婚前親密關係行為開始，摒棄陋習。

In the morbid age of marriage， material desire and flesh desire are the original sin。 If marriage wants to return to health， it must start with the intimate relationship before marriage and abandon bad habits。

金錢，兩個人齊心協力才能得到，所以，相對於你未來，看一個男人值不值得嫁，就要看他娶你的迫切性。

Money， two people can work together to get， so relative to your future， whether a man is worth marrying depends on his urgency to marry you。

要走的人留不住，心已不復存在，留人沒有意義。

Those who want to go can’t stay， the heart is gone， and it‘s meaningless to keep people unattended。

這時，我們才漸漸明白，修若得不到珍惜和守持，最後不圓滿才是真正的答案。

At this point， we gradually understand that the real answer is that cultivation can not be cherished and guarded， and ultimately can not be perfect。

現實社會里，一個人能夠以自己真誠的態度對待別人，已經成為別人寶貴的知己。

In this realistic society， a person who can treat others with his own sincere attitude has become a valuable confidant of others。

人生不容易，不必計較太多，難得糊塗！別自棄，要活在內心向陽！別纏著過去，對過去說拜拜！

Life is not easy。 Don’t worry too much。 It‘s hard to get confused！ Don’t abandon yourself， live in the heart to the sun！ Don‘t dwell on the past and say goodbye to the past freely！