越早明白越好的人生道路，撫平心緒

他的所有行為都是在魯莽行事之前三思而後行的結果，他不會把自己的生命和未來交到非理性行為的手中。

All his actions are the result of thinking twice before acting recklessly He will not hand over his life and future to irrational behavior

記住要與他人保持距離，並與他們保持平等的關係。當你到了中年，與任何人走得太近都可能是一場災難，永遠不要高估你與任何人的關係。

Remember to keep a distance from others and maintain an equal relationship with them When you reach middle age， getting too close to anyone can be a disaster Never overestimate your relationship with anyone

在選擇配偶時，男人和女人的風險是一樣的！

When choosing a spouse， men and women are at the same risk！

用錢來換取叛徒的滿足，放縱自己所謂的真情實感，在叛徒的眼裡，不過是一臺行走的ATM機。

In the eyes of the traitor， it is just a walking ATM to exchange money for the traitor‘s satisfaction and indulge his so-called true feelings

記住，你所有的損失將是另一種收穫，你所有的遺憾將是對你最好的實現。

Remember， all your losses will be another harvest， and all your regrets will be the best realization for you

第五：懶惰和想找 “依靠 ”的心態。

Fifth： laziness and the mentality of looking for “dependence”

因為中年婦女的困難和心痛只有她們自己最清楚。那些無論面對什麼都能保持一顆善良的心的中年婦女，天知道她要向自己妥協多少次，才能和自己握手言和！

Because the difficulties and heartache of middle-aged women are best known only to themselves Those middle-aged women who can maintain a kind heart no matter what they face， God knows how many times she has to compromise with herself before she can shake hands and make peace with herself！